Andrea isn't a fussy baby. She never has been. But lately she has been cutting some molars and she isn't sleeping well, unless she is snuggling in bed with me. I don't mind the snuggling (actually I love it), but her restlessness next to me makes it hard for Scott and I to get a good night's sleep. I love my kids, but after a few nights of not so great sleep, I need some good solid REM time, so we really try to get Andrea to sleep in her crib.

Andrea and Gwyneth share a room and I think Gwyneth is getting a little fed up and worried about the unusual amount of crying from her baby sister lately. During naps and at bed time sometimes I hear Andrea wake up crying, then I hear Gwyneth's firm but kind voice saying, "Stop crying, Andrea. Stop crying, Andrea!" Gwyneth isn't angry or yelling, but she does have a stern tone in her voice. The kicker is that about half the time, Andrea settles down after Gwyneth gives her command. If it doesn't work, Gwyneth will often try handing her a blanket, a toy, or a sippy cup of water to help ease her sisters distress. My heart melts every time I witness this sweet little attempt.

From the moment Gwyneth was born, I have sensed that she has a talent for soothing others when they are in pain. I've seen it happen over and over as she interacts with others, be they her own age or not. She has been my healer many times. She doesn' t say, "Stop crying, Mom" but when I am near her I find it easier to get over my self pity and get on with whatever task is at hand. Everything just seems a little brighter and manageable when she's nearby. Her presence seems to have a calming effect. Maybe this seems like a lot to expect and to see in a child that isn't even 3 years old, but I have no expectations of her. I'm not looking to her to hold me together, I'm just reporting what I see and feel.

These days, I don't rush in the room so fast when Andrea cries. I wait outside the door and listen to see if maybe the two of them are going to work it out without needing my help. I feel like I'm watching the formation of what will be a lifelong bond of love and caring between them. What more can any mom ask for her babies?

Obligatory mommy disclaimer: All my kids have talents and gifts that constantly amaze me. Today's post just happens to be on one of Gwyneth's talents. Alex, Gabrielle and Andrea, I love each of you so much, you each make me so proud and I think each of you are the best kids in the world! Hugs and kisses!